Mother and daughter silhouette
Mother and daughter silhouette
Lifestyle

Having a daughter gave me the relationship with my mother that I never had as a kid

This essay was originally published on August 13th, 2018. I knew that my second child…

Paper cutout family on top of dollar bills
Paper cutout family on top of dollar bills
Money & Career

Why starting a family feels scary when you’re a millennial

I was sitting down to write this when I came across an article from The…

Author and her daughter
Author and her daughter
Lifestyle

What I learned about parenting a child who has depression

I was in elementary school when my grandmother took me to my first therapist. The…

Mom holding her baby and texting on phone
Mom holding her baby and texting on phone
Lifestyle

The parenting advice from my mom that I have to ignore

Motherhood—and mothers’ voices—should be celebrated every day. But that also means having conversations about the…

Mom breastfeeding her son
Mom breastfeeding her son
Health & Fitness

I loved the idea of breastfeeding. The reality stressed me out

Motherhood—and mothers’ voices—should be celebrated every day. But that also means having conversations about the…

Author and her kids next to Millennial Moms logo
Author and her kids next to Millennial Moms logo
Health & Fitness

Being a mom with fibromyalgia means teaching my kids the importance of kindness

Motherhood—and mothers’ voices—should be celebrated every day. But that also means having conversations about the…

Mom working on a laptop with her son in her lap
Mom working on a laptop with her son in her lap
Lifestyle

Why being a millennial mom feels so different from our own moms’ experiences

Motherhood—and mothers’ voices—should be celebrated every day. But that also means having conversations about the…

Mother and son at Pride parade. Mom is holding sign that says, 'I love my gay son'
Mother and son at Pride parade. Mom is holding sign that says, 'I love my gay son'
Lifestyle

The difference between tolerating and embracing your LGBTQ family, and why it matters

I remember the first time I successfully came out to someone in my family. I…

Two moms hugging child
Two moms hugging child
Lifestyle

How “mom co-ops” gave me the community that my son and I were missing

Motherhood—and mothers’ voices—should be celebrated every day. But that also means having conversations about the…

Grandfather and granddaughter walking along a path
Grandfather and granddaughter walking along a path
Lifestyle

What it’s like to grieve a family member you’ve never met

I quickly learned to hate filling out family trees in grade school. I distinctly remember…

Pancakes and syrup on a yellow and green background
Pancakes and syrup on a yellow and green background
Lifestyle

Eating breakfast at diners with my dad is how we say “I love you”

I can play one song on the piano. It’s not “Heart and Soul,” or that…

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dad-chavarria
Lifestyle

Father’s Day is another reminder that grief is a lifelong process

The time on my phone reads 12:00 midnight as the day rolls over to May…

Illustration of adult daughter, grandfather, and two kids at a store
Illustration of adult daughter, grandfather, and two kids at a store
Lifestyle

How I’ve reconnected with my father in adulthood

Father’s Day was a holiday my brother and I never quite celebrated. It merely served…

Collage of a sun, clouds, a doctor talking to patient, a newborn baby and a woman holding her head
Collage of a sun, clouds, a doctor talking to patient, a newborn baby and a woman holding her head
Health & Fitness

Giving birth didn’t ease my “baby blues.” It made me suicidal

Motherhood—and mothers’ voices—should be celebrated every day. But that also means having conversations about the…

Author on beach in Portugal
Author on beach in Portugal
Travel

What I learned about my immigrant grandparents and my love for my heritage by traveling to Portugal

For as long as I can remember, my Portuguese heritage has been an important part…

Illustration of a Black mom and her baby on a pink bakckground
Illustration of a Black mom and her baby on a pink bakckground
Lifestyle

I love being a mom—but motherhood is not all I should talk about with friends, coworkers, or even my own family

Motherhood—and mothers’ voices—should be celebrated every day. But that also means having conversations about the…

Family

5 Asian and Pacific Islander Americans Reflect on Their Families’ Legacies

Mother and child holding hands on pier
Mother and child holding hands on pier
Lifestyle

A love letter to children who had to cut ties with their mothers

This essay discusses child abuse and suicidal behavior. Please read with caution if these subjects…

illustration of a family conflict
illustration of a family conflict
Lifestyle

How to effectively de-escalate a family conflict

I’ve always felt the weight of my family’s dysfunction on my shoulders. From a young…

Photo of the author with her two sons and daughter
Photo of the author with her two sons and daughter
Lifestyle

The pictures I wish I had of my parents are the ones I’ll make sure to leave for my kids

With death comes so many absolutes. A last conversation, a last gift, a last embrace—all…