Ryan Reynolds used Twitter to give a groom some amazing material for his wedding toast

A very internet-savvy groom-to-be took to Twitter to ask every man’s man, Ryan Reynolds, his advice on keeping his wife and his life happy. And we’re like, DUH! What have we been doing all this time, seeking our parents advice, speaking to therapists, consulting horoscopes, kvetching with friends…

…when what we should have been doing is TWEETING AT CELEBRITIES FOR ADVICE? Seems like the best idea ever.

@VancityReynolds I'm getting married this Saturday. Perhaps misguidedly, I'm seeking celebrity advice on how to keep happy wife/life. Ideas?

— Dirk van Graver (@Dirky_Minded) October 12, 2016

Ryan Reynolds himself had a golden response.

You've come to the right place, Dirk. Celebrities are the gold standard for relationship advice. https://t.co/Lxx5ju8rDw

— Ryan Reynolds (@VancityReynolds) October 12, 2016

But it’s the dozens of responses from Ryan Reynolds’ followers that have us gripping our sides and wiping tears from our eyes.

So simple.

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Nothing is as it seems.

if shes says 'it's fine' it's really not!

— CJ Harvey (@CelliaHarvey) October 12, 2016

So sincere!

Be her best friend. Let her be your best friend. Love, respect, communication. You got this!

— Brad Myers (@hordestarscream) October 12, 2016

But not like Kim K.

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Let Ryan handle it.

https://twitter.com/udfredirect/status/786205450022903809

Seduce her.

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Don’t forget!

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So thoughtful.

@Dirky_Minded Empty and reload the dishwasher without being told.

— Jedi McBeardface (@TripleDaddy) October 12, 2016

Do what you can.

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The most important thing.

Go down on her a lot.

— Jim Blystone (@Jimmy3Balls) October 12, 2016

Dirk’s gratitude for all the advice was appropriately great.

with the advice of your Twitter followers, the entertainment value of my groom's speech just increased by a factor of ten 👍

— Dirk van Graver (@Dirky_Minded) October 12, 2016

With a role model like Reynolds (who’s got two kids with wife Blake Lively), you know he’s gonna be just fiiiine. In the words of Deadpool, “You don’t need to be a superhero to get the girl, the right girl will bring out the hero in you.”