Salma Hayek's reason for waiting so long to share her Harvey Weinstein story is too common among survivors of abuse
When the Harvey Weinstein news first broke in October 2017, actress Salma Hayek was reluctant to join the movement with her own story. But two months after the watershed exposé, Hayek wrote a devastating, detailed account of the relentless sexual harassment she endured from Weinstein while working on the 2002 film Frida. On February 7th, Hayek revealed why it took her months to find her voice in the Weinstein conversation to Oprah Winfrey during a live taping of her podcast SuperSoul Conversations.
“I felt like my pain was so small,” Hayek told Winfrey (via Deadline). “I thought, ‘There’s no point for me to talk because it happens to everyone.'”
However, once she realized that it wasn’t about chiming in, but about furthering a movement, she decided to share her story.
In December 2017, Hayek wrote an essay for The New York Times about the sexual harassment she faced while working with Weinstein. She detailed his numerous attempts to show up at her hotel “at all hours of the night” and described his constant requests to shower with her, watch her shower, perform oral sex, and give her massages. She repeatedly rejected him and said “with every refusal came Harvey’s Machiavellian rage.”
While we don’t know if the #MeToo movement has decreased the number of instances of assault or harassment, Hayek and Winfrey wrapped up their talk with the affirmation that we shouldn’t put all our energy in the results of a movement, but embrace the fact that women stood together and created something powerful to begin with.
“We have to be brave and excited with not just the result of the change but the little steps and the effort we put in every day,” Hayek said. “You might not see it, but it will happen. And you can’t give up on it.”
We applaud Hayek for speaking out. Let this serve as a reminder that although the voice in your head may say that your story doesn’t matter, it does.