Trilby Beresford
December 15, 2016 12:16 pm
Instagram/JoJo Fletcher

Let’s be honest: It’s hard to hear rumors about yourself and your life, no matter who you are. And it’s gotta be even worse when you’re part of a couple dating in the spotlight, like The Bachelorette’s JoJo Fletcher and fiancé Jordan Rodgers.

We just heard from People that negative rumors do definitely bother JoJo and Jordan, and that it absolutely gets under their skin.

And while we know that one might argue that meeting on a national television show means you should expect to be talked about publicly, nothing probably prepares you for an onslaught of baseless negative comments and personal attacks. No matter who you are.

But she goes on to admit how it’s not always easy to look the other way, especially with the access that everyone has to them via social media.

JoJo…we feel you 100%! Finding the perfect balance between sharing intimate things on social media, and choosing to leave moments as private exchanges between you and your loved one can be hard to do. Throw in thousands of followers, and it gets even more complicated.

According to JoJo, Jordan often provide a healthy perspective.

It’s great to hear that they handle these issues together, because this stuff is genuinely hard — Fletcher mentioned that if she doesn’t post a picture on Instagram for three days, people assume they’ve broken up! And that’s…exhausting, which is why it’s important that she has a strong support network.

We hope that JoJo and Jordan continue to rise above any pesky internet negativity, because they’re soon to be married and that’s incredibly exciting!

Keep doing you, guys. No matter what.