Despite being a notoriously private person when it comes to her relationships, Selena Gomez opened up about her take on relationships in a radio interview. We respect Selena’s — and any celebrity’s — right to keep their personal lives private, even if we’re curious, but we also totally respect Selena being so open about how she views and treats relationships. Dating can be a difficult, painful thing, but that risk comes with some really great rewards. But knowing that risk makes it hard to open up…unless you’re Selena Gomez, who goes all in.

Selena told Power96 Miami in a recent radio interview:

It’s not just in relationships that Selena Gomez gives her all, however. She values the people she loves very highly, and the weight she puts on love translates to her art, too.

Check out the full interview below!

Selena also opens up about the lie she once told a guy when she was feeling insecure and how she “changes” for a guy, even though she regrets every second of it. We’re digging this completely transparent interview.

We love your realness, Selena.