"Help! Should I breakup with my high school bestie?"
She was always the one coming to me for advice and guidance. I never had a problem with that. But, any time that I wanted to share something exciting about my life (moving in with the BF, a new job, etc.) she would respond with silence. I would laugh at her stories and be genuinely interested, but she was like, “Yeah, well, anyways, I. . . ”
Solid relationships are built on trust, otherwise the connection is just an illusion. I’m sure you are worried about her and that’s kind, but its not your responsibility to rescue her—especially if she’s willfully making questionable choices.