93-Year-Old Grandma’s Viral Dating Advice: “If He Golfs, Don’t Trust Him.”

Connecticut's Lillian Droniak has gained 8.7 million TikTok followers for her sassy life wisdom.

At age 93, Lillian Droniak is quickly becoming the internet’s most trusted (and beloved) dating advice expert. The grandma, who hails from Shelton, Connecticut, has garnered nearly 9 million followers and 245 million likes on TikTok thanks to her savage videos on dating red flags and relationship wisdom.

Droniak’s red flag videos are all TikTokers can talk about right now. The clips have amassed so much attention that Droniak has since turned them into a weekly series during which she shares her biggest deal breakers or “red flags” in a potential partner, specifically in men — more specifically, in men who “golf” or don’t like to play bingo.

In one video, Droniak advised her followers to stay away from men who lie about their height. “It’s okay if you’re a short king, we just need to know,” she explained.

She’s also big into astrology: “If he is a water sign, run! Run far away.”

According to Droniak, men whose names start with the letter J also can’t be trusted. “Don’t forget about J-names! I’m talking about Jimmy, Jason, Jack,” she warned.

Your date isn’t a cat lover? “Block him!” Droniak says, before adding, “If he golfs, don’t trust him.”

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Other red flags of Droniak’s include when a man “doesn’t hold the door open for me.”

“It’s not that hard,” she quipped — guys who hate bingo, no soup in the fridge, and “if he doesn’t call me pretty all the time.”

When it comes to the first date, Droniak also has some stern rules she follows and thinks her fans should, too.

“Never bring your wallet on a first date. You deserve a free dinner if you have to listen to a man talk about himself,” she said in one clip.

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After going on a first date of her own, Droniak commented in a new video, “Just because the guy buys you dinner doesn’t mean you have to text him. Okay? You don’t have to text him, especially if he was rude on your date.”

What do you think of Droniak’s advice? Check out her other TikTok videos here.

Emily Weaver
Emily is a NYC-based freelance entertainment and lifestyle writer — though, she’ll never pass up the opportunity to talk about women’s health and sports (she thrives during the Olympics). Read more