The next time your bestie bails on your big event without so much as a crying emoji text, show them this note from T. Swift. On Saturday, Taylor Swift sent the sweetest note to a fan who invited the songstress to her graduation party, including a handwritten card (complete with an adorable stick figure portrait of the fan) and a stunning bouquet of spring flowers.

In recent months, Swift has gone out of her way to avoid the spotlight. But the bubbling up of bad blood between the singer and Kimye, and her very public romance with (and split from) Tom Hiddleston couldn’t stop Swift from RSVPing to fan Ashley Silvers’ invitation to attend her New York-themed graduation party in the kindest, most gracious, most Swifty way possible.

After expressing her regret for missing the festivities, (“The New York theme, the photo booth, it being on the 13th…that’s my kind of party.”), Swift applauded Silvers’ accomplishment, singing her praises and ending the letter on a high note.

According to E! News, Silvers reached out to Swift using an email address posted on the singer’s official website and even mailed paper invitations to her headquarters in Nashville. “It was basically the party invitation and a letter explaining why I was inviting her and what she means to me,” Silvers said. “She just got my fan mail at the right time and life has a funny way of working I guess!”

Later, Silvers took to Instagram to thank the superstar for the gorgeous gifts and “8 years of amazing memories.”

Forever & Always, Taylor!