As celebrities go, Selena Gomez has always been one of the most relatable. She’s been open about her struggles with Lupus and depression, as well as how much therapy helped her. And now she’s opening up again to talk about her budding relationship with Abel Tesfaye, aka The Weeknd.

The two started dating sometime around January, when paparazzi snapped photos of the two kissing and being an adorable new couple. Since then, they’ve been spotted all over the place, culminating in a gorgeous appearance at the Met Gala.

Gomez spoke to Power96 Miami about her relationship style and had some pretty relatable things to say.

Selena goes all-in when she’s in love

Furthermore, she knows what it’s like to want someone you love to express that love. She was asked the last lie she told (relevant to her new song “Bad Liar”). This was her response:

In addition, she got candid about her ethos for making art, and how she doesn’t have the energy to care what people think.

As always, Selena offers up the wisdom we need right now.