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We’re feeling really disappointed right now. Why? Because people are freaking out over Amber Rose’s son getting a mani-pedi on Instagram, and it seriously sucks. It’s really just so unfair that Rose is judged so harshly for giving her son a manicure. Sebastian was happy, Rose was happy. WHAT ELSE MATTERS, YOU GUYS?!

So here’s what went down: super feminist mom Amber Rose celebrated fall with her ADORABLE son by getting creative. During their mother-son time, they got mani-pedis. It’s so, so cute, and he said he was so excited. Amber Rose shared a video of her little one on Instagram, which she captioned,

But people didn’t care that her son was happy. They cared that Rose wasn’t giving into gender norms and stripping her son of his freedom. It’s sad, but Rose was already prepared for the negative comments. She captioned the photo with a subtle takedown in advance, saying,

It’s so unfair that she should even have to say that. Because Amber Rose is JUST right. Why should children suffer under gender roles that they have no control over? Luckily, Rose stayed positive. She wrote,

We’re so happy she doesn’t let limiting understandings of gender keep her from parenting her child the way she sees fit. You go, lady.