If you are a woman of color, you better believe that you are regal no matter what. True, institutions exist to ensure that Black and Brown women think less of themselves, and barriers (whether they are physical, economic, or ideological) get in our way. That’s why, in 2017, Black women are still making history as the “first.” Right now, that Black woman is duchess-to-be, Meghan Markle — a biracial actor, writer, and philanthropist — because Meghan is engaged to Prince Harry.
Before Meghan, a non-white woman has never been a member of the British monarchy.
In Afua Hirsch’s piece about Meghan and Harry’s engagement for The Guardian, Hirsch discusses the intersection of the British and Black experience — an experience that she herself lives. Hirsch describes diversity as something that’s theoretically celebrated in Britain but not actually implemented — and any time an institution has historically excluded color from its narrative, there is a problem. Love and marriage are tricky, since you can’t choose who you fall in love with, but by marrying into the Royal Family, Meghan is disrupting the norms that have marginalized Black British people:
While their engagement is certainly a cause for celebration, Hirsch addresses the media’s highly problematic rhetoric about a Black woman becoming part of the Royal Family:
In 2016, Prince Harry spoke out against the racism and sexism Meghan was experiencing in media coverage of their relationship. This commentary by internet trolls and outright racists likely plays a part in Meghan’s response to early press as “disheartening.”
The Daily Star Online thought it was respectful to not only think — but publish — the words, “[Harry] could marry into gangster royalty — his new love is from a crime ridden Los Angeles neighborhood.”
The idea that being half-black and from Crenshaw is synonymous with “gangster” — a word that is rarely used properly by white people — is grimy. Meghan’s hometown is being discussed as if it’s something to be ashamed of. Here’s another option for the media — let’s celebrate her for making her mark on the world even though the she came up in a space that is infamous for its roughness.
It’s upsetting Prince Harry had to address the hate at all. He was not only legitimately concerned for Meghan’s safety, but he also spoke about her mother being unable to live normally due to invasive journalists.
Love should not have this kind of dark buzz around it. Keep in mind this was before their engagement had even happened. Sheesh.
Meghan, the daughter of a Black mother and a white father, spoke at length about her biracial identity in a 2015 essay titled “I’m More Than An ‘Other.'” Published in Elle UK, Meghan wrote about witnessing her mother get called the N-word, struggling to get roles because of her mixed race appearance, and combating confusion around her identity while growing up:
And now, women of color are absolutely LIVING for this official link-up.
As an established actress, Meghan currently stars as paralegal Rachel Zane on Suits. She also served as editor-in-chief for her own lifestyle site, The Tig, from 2014 until this year. So the future duchess has definitely got it going on all on her own.
We’ve seen countless tweets about how excited WOC are to see diversity in Kensington Palace.
When was the first time you saw a woman of color in royal attire?
The thing making Meghan and Harry’s engagement that much more beautiful is the fact that it’s real life.
While media and film representation is majorly important, seeing a mixed-race woman become literal royalty in real time is inspiring.
Little Black and Browns girls need to know that they can be exactly who they are, can be independently successful, have past relationships, be a divorcee — and become royalty. The restrictions that are placed upon women of color serve no purpose other than to make us feel bad for simply being. It is time that people understand that, like Meghan Markle, we are powerful, talented, and sovereign.
A toast to our beautiful duchess-to-be!