jessica tholmer
November 19, 2017 9:54 am
HBO

Lena Dunham is pretty good at digging herself into deep holes. Recently, Girls writer Murray Miller was accused of sexual assault. And on Friday, November 17th, Dunham and Girls co-creator Jenni Konner released a statement supporting him. Now, Dunham has apologized for coming to his defense.

The backlash came quickly. Dunham’s defense of Miller was upsetting, to say the least. After Dunham’s powerful response to the allegations against Harvey Weinstein, a lot of people expected more. Her apology came quickly — just the next day, on Saturday, November 18th.

Being friends with certain people in Hollywood is understandably hard right now. Expecting women to comment on every allegation is unfair and exhausting. Women in the industry (and everywhere) are often going to be friends with disappointing men. Men who have perpetuated rape culture, or worse. We have all been left disappointed, hurt, and shocked by revelations about men we once loved. It’s hard. It sucks.

But it is our duty to believe women, which is something Dunham has preached countless times before.

Since Dunham chose to quickly defend her pal Miller, her apology was necessary. She took to Twitter to post screenshots from her Notes app. Her words leaned heavily into her feminism.

Dunham presumably spoke for both herself and Konner.

She concluded by emphasizing how important it is to believe women.

For many, Dunham’s is a non-apology.

Dunham’s words are hard to take in, considering she should probably know better at this point. Sexual assault is no joke. It sucks when a friend is accused of assault. It is even more heartbreaking for the survivor. As an outspoken feminist, Dunham should know this. As a public figure, Dunham should do better. At least an apology is a start.

Twitter has expressed its distaste for Dunham’s initial reaction, as well as her apology.

But at least we have this.

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