11 people reveal the one sign that told them they were dating the wrong person

During our search for love, we sometimes find ourselves dating the wrong person (or many, many wrong people) because as the saying goes, you’ve got to kiss a few frogs before you can delete Tinder (or something like that). There is nothing to be ashamed of — maybe you were more in love with the *idea* of them and how amazing the relationship could be, or maybe the initial attraction has faded and you’ve found yourself quickly outgrowing the relationship and all it has to offering. Whatever the reason, we get it. We’ve all been there and we know how easy it can be to get stuck in a relationship that isn’t totally terrible but isn’t really working either.

If you’re wondering whether or not you’re dating the wrong person, we recommend checking out what these 11 people had to say on Whisper:

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It may take some time before you finally realize you’re dating the wrong person; the signs can often be more subtle and the “red flags” more of a pale pink. So, it’s important to trust yourself and do what feels right for you.