If you told me as a kid that I’d be discouraging someone from emulating Doogie Hoswer, I’d be shocked. I know it seems cool to be like Doogie Howser and have a journal you type on your computer every night on a really blue screen but I think we can’t let the magic of a paper journal/notebook/diary/log/whatever to go to waste. We have to keep our paper journals, you guys! I don’t even know if this is something I need to tell you but I’m going to anyway because I feel really strongly about it, okay?
I’ve had a Xanga, a livejournal, I currently have a tumblr, etc, I’m all about the Internet and everything, but there is something special about a paper journal. First, there are SO many options of journals out there. I love a good Moleskine, but I also use just regular notebooks with a funny cover on them. I would even be up for a Bridget Jones style DIARY! Just any situation where I’m putting pen (or pencil) to paper as my notebook is the situation I want to be in.
Some of my favorite characters (including the aforementioned Doogie Howser) LOVE journals!
Hannah Horvath of Girls, like me, only refers to hers as a notebook:
“Okay I don’t wanna split hairs here, but it’s not a journal, it’s a notebook. It’s notes for a book.”
In Wet Hot American Summer, Andy, doesn’t even know what he’s writing in, just that he does it every day:
And my soul mate Lisa Simpson uses the term log for hers:
“Dear Log: This will be my last entry. For you were a journal of my hopes and dreams, and now I have none.”
After you pick out your journal it’s also fun to have a little ritual to go along with it. I always write the date I bought the notebook and then the date I started using it (if those are different). Someone didn’t believe me that I always write in some variation on “One Alf POG” in my Moleskines in the reward section and I took a picture of the ones I had handy.
I used to try to start one and finish it within a year but now I have so many notebooks going at once that that task would be impossible. I carry one in my purse, I have one for work, for each job and I always have the main one that I put everything in.
When I was younger I definitely used it more as a diary and would spill my guts out to this piece of paper. Then it morphed into doodles if I was bored (trust me, I’m no artist) and little ideas for things. I’ve written short stories in notebooks, ideas for posts on this very site and even just kept track of what movies I’ve seen. It’s a whole section of my life that no one can comment on or “like” or “favorite” or really, butt in on. And I love that and really think that’s very important especially when you’re growing up.
You know how there are no bad ideas in brainstorming? Well, there are no bad ideas in journal writing either. That’s the best part of it. This is a place where your friends can’t pipe in on your thoughts or feelings and it’s just you. You are in charge of your domain and as long as no one steals your journal you are all set to keep it private. (Another reason to not spill your guys online is because you could think it’s anonymous and then a situation like Awkward. happens. And then everyone knows you keep this crazy detailed online diary and it’s super, well, awkward.)
Also, journals are great because it’s a little snapshot of your life from that time. Oh, that’s when I read that book? I saw that movie in 2007? Weird. It’s embarrassing and awesome and so good for reflection and other things you need to do sometimes when you’re older or through a rough patch.
But just watch out because sometimes journals aren’t meant to be re-read just yet.
If you want suggestions of where to get journals from I’m always coveting a ton so just ask.