Open Ticket Study Abroad Memories: From London, With Love Stephanie Spitler

It’s funny, the things that I remember years later. The little snapshots that pop into my head whenever I think of London.

I remember sitting, my legs propped up on my bags in front of me, in a waiting area in Heathrow.

I remember having to lug those 2 giant suitcases over four blocks of bumpy London sidewalks (I had not yet learned the importance of packing light), because our street was too small for the bus to maneuver down.

I remember a bunch of us pouring into the local pub on one of our first nights there, giddy with excitement and lingering jet lag.

I remember meeting my flatmates and having a bonding night, complete with pajamas, cider and getting-to-know-you laughter.

I remember the wind from the approaching Tube train blowing my hair back. I remember the bustle of changing trains at Green Park during rush hour, and getting frustrated with the “tourists” who seemed to move in slow motion.

I remember our meeting spot, by the Eros statue in Piccadilly Circus, and the ache of tired feet after a night of dancing. I remember sprinting through the Tube station, trying to catch the last train. And, when that failed, I remember shivering in the cold of Trafalgar Square, waiting in the darkness for the night bus that would take me home.

I remember my classes (barely).

I remember strolling down a side street, swinging a bag of groceries from Sainsbury’s, gazing up at the grey London sky and feeling, at that moment, perfectly happy.

I remember the friends I made. We still keep in touch, though now it’s just through occasional posts on our Facebook walls instead of daily chats in the pub.

And I remember being back at Heathrow airport, months after I arrived, crying as I waited for the plane to take me back. It’s hard to say I was going home, because in those 4 short months I felt like a tiny flat in Swiss Cottage had become my home.

And that’s the best thing about living (and studying) abroad. You realize you can adapt to anything, and grow to love it. Your definition of home, and your understanding of the world around you, expands. It wasn’t one momentous, life-changing moment, but the simple day-to-day experiences, that defined my time in England.

Share your thoughts on living/studying abroad, and check back next week for some tips on how to make the most of a study abroad experience!

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  6. Great post! I’m also one of those who lived and studied in London. Stayed there 1 year in total and never wanted to get back home! London has some specific points that reminds you of the city, as you wrote here some of them, and whenever they come to my mind I regretfully realise that the best thing I’d do is to stay in London for ever and never leave the city.

    London is adorable in every way! I still miss being there!

  7. I am living and working in London right now! I loved what you wrote and all the comments! I feel like Heathrow is my second home as I spend so much time there! You would have to live here to understand the signifigance of walking home with Sainsburys bags. And yes when my husband and I arrived here we had WAY too much luggage! I know I will miss it dearly when we leave next day so am trying to appreciate London as much as I can now! My favorite thing about living in London right now is the underground and the National Rail!!!

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  8. This post made me so nostalgic! I did study-abroad in London as well – best 3 1/2 months of my life! What I miss most though is strolling along the Thames, just thinking and people watching. I miss the markets, I miss the awesome street decorations at Christmas, I miss hearing the British accent, and I miss being in such a culturally rich & diverse city! I can’t wait to go back one day!

  9. I’m in Amsterdam right now til July. I came here alone to study and so far, it’s been nothing short of spectacular. I absolutely love the way you phrased it. “You realize you can adapt to anything, and grow to love it.”

    It’s true. And as much as it saddens me to know I’ll have to return “home” in a few short months, I’ll adapt and make the most of my time there too. Although, I know this is probably one of the best experiences of my life and I am savoring every moment. Except this one, when I’m reading blogs instead of exploring. ;)

  10. I studied abroad in my motherland, S. Korea, for 5 months, and those were the best 5 months of my life. I learned so much more about myself, my family, my culture and history. I met so many great people, and I miss them all terribly. I definitely cried on my way back to the States. Home is where the heart is (I know, so cliche!), and my heart is in Korea. I haven’t been able to go back since then, but I’ve been trying every year. But this year, I’ll actually be going to London for the Olympics, and I can’t wait for the experience! It’s not Korea, but it’s been a dream of mine to go to the Summer Olympics and London! :P

  11. Lovely post – shame the picture’s of Cambridge, not London…

  12. I’ll be spending next year in Italy. I’m so flustered with emotion sometimes – nervousness, fear, whimsy, excitement and curiosity. I just want to be there, already immersed in their culture and language. Just 6 more months to wait.

  13. I spent a semester in Dublin and it was the best experience of my life. I miss it dearly! I’m so grateful that I was able to have that experience and am sad for my friends who never will. It’s totally true that studying abroad makes you so adaptable. I felt that it made me grow up really quickly. The only downside is that once the travel bug bites you, you want to always be going somewhere new. Unfortunately right now my wallet is unable to make the jet set lifestyle possible!

  14. I too studied abroad in London, back in the Summer of 2010. I still think about the city, my friends, and all the wonderful experiences I had while living there. I truly can relate to everything in your post, so I wanted to thank you for sharing your experience!! It definitely was one of, if not THE, best experiences of my life. I’m going back this summer for the Olympics, and I truly feel almost as if I’m going back HOME :) Even though So Cal is my home, haha. Cheers!!

  15. There should be a blue phone booth between those red ones.

  16. Seeing this picture, or any picture, of the phonebooths in London, all I think about is how badly they smelled like piss! I just haaaad to get that iconic picture though…

  17. Studying in Seville, Spain was one of the best decisions I ever made and one of the most memorable, exciting experiences of my life. So many great memories!!

  18. I studied for a summer in London as an undergrad…then I went back on a 6-month work visa after graduation…then I went back for Grad school for 2 years. For those of you facing the end of your trips, don’t be sad! It doesn’t have to be the end. I am going back to London for the Olympics this summer and can’t wait. Just think of it as a home away from home. A lusty goal I have is to retire there…go to the National Theatre once a week, drink Ribena, eat pasties and visit old book shops to my heart’s content :)

  19. This is exactly how I feel about London. I fell in love with the city almost immediately, and as much as I wanted to come home to see friends and family, I wanted to stay in London forever! It’s a beautiful city because it’s so alive! I miss the Christmas outdoor market/fair in Hyde Park and all of the open-air markets around the city. Even if I couldn’t buy much, it was wonderful to be around all of those people and see all of the wonderful things people were selling! Portobello Market was wonderful, and I wish I could have seen more of Notting Hill and the surrounding area…I hope I can go back soon.

  20. I loved this post, not only because it’s true, but because I was a part of those memories. And I laughed out loud at the barely remembering class part, but I’m sure you remember a certain someone’s contributions to classroom discussion. Living in London was one of the best times of my life, and it’s amazing how it still impacts my life and worldview 12 years later (wait, am I allowed to admit it was that long ago?). Swiss Cottage was the perfect place to call home, and I think I still have my Sainsbury card. When I stopped into Waitrose a few years ago, I thought, “Hey, this store isn’t as expensive as I thought it was when I was 20. What was I complaining about?” But that was in comparison to NYC grocery store prices instead of my little hometown. How things change. But, hey, I hope to see you soon and not just on Facebook! Great job, Steph!

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