Something I Never Thought I'd Say: "I <3 College."Tori Coyne

Before you think, “Oh God, another middle class white girl from New England telling me about the importance of education!” please hear me out.

If you are currently in high school, or even if you graduated from high school 20 years ago, I urge you to consider applying to college. Trust, I came up with all of the excuses when my parents first told me I was going. “You didn’t go to college, why should I?” I would scream. And then there’s the expense. I go to the least generous private university around and I take out loans every year. So, I know it can be discouraging when you get down to the nitty-gritty.

I didn’t always think school was great. Actually, I hated school and school really hated me. Even my high school guidance counselor had no faith in my ability to succeed, and that was basically her only job. But here I am today, crying over a B+ and sort of in love with college.

While you don’t need to go to a private school and get a “designer” diploma, education is extremely important. College is an opportunity to learn about the world, and most importantly about you.

So, I put together a list of reasons why I think college is worth it, partially for my own sanity, more so because when I was 15 and everyone was telling me no, I wish there was some random chick on the internet telling me yes. I’ll save you the obvious things, like getting the job you want, lifelong friends and a degree that never goes out of style. Instead, here are 5 things you maybe haven’t thought of:

1. Internships

Before you can get the job of your dreams, you need skills that no classroom can teach you. I didn’t realize the importance of internships until I came to college. I have the luck of going to a school that prides itself on internship programs. In fact, I wouldn’t be writing this post for HelloGiggles if it weren’t for an internship program. Internships help you figure out if that dream job is really your dream, with no real risk attached. And even if you hate your internship, you can come away from it with great references if you really work hard, and even better skills.

2. The Friends You Haven’t Met Yet

Alumni. Alumnae? I failed Latin, but they still exist. I recently moved to LA from Boston. You would be amazed at how many people went to my university. It’s a great conversation starter, and conversations form friendships that could maybe lead to a partnership or job opportunity down the line. Even if someone didn’t go to your school, maybe you played one another in sports or were in the same fraternity or club. It’s one more thing you could have in common with the person sitting across the table in an interview, and who doesn’t love a leg up?

3. More important than friends: People You Hate.

Listen up, kiddos, life is full of people you cannot stand. I’ve had a roommate who doesn’t shower, a boss who contradicts himself four times in one sentence and a project partner who’s never heard of an alarm. It would have been so easy to tell them all to piss off and be done with it. But in real life you can’t just be an a**hole, otherwise, well, you’re just an a**hole and no one wants to be around you. I learned I don’t have to like everyone and everyone doesn’t have to like me. Day in and day out, you’ll meet people who will challenge you or who downright suck as humans, and there is no better time to learn how to deal with them than when you’re 18.

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  1. great article thanks for sharing with the world!

  2. Girlfriend, I totally get it! I work in the arts -my undergraduate degrees are in Art History and Museum Studies- and when I decided to apply to graduate programs last fall, a lot of people scorned my decision or didn’t understand why I want to get an MA or just didn’t believe in me…. Well now I’ve been accepted to four out of six universities I applied to and that “Well, I did” feel is the BEST part of being accepted! I’ve definitely used all the negativity to fuel my actions :)

    ps: Internships really are the most important part of college!

  3. The boss that contradicts himself…. haha boy, don’t I know it. You’re such an amazing writer!

  4. In the last sentance it should read: “Well, I did, so suck it”.
    Awesome story :)

    • Aw shucks, thanks girl! Best believe: I will use some choice words come graduation day!

      Tori Coyne | 2/26/2013 03:02 pm
  5. your article is inspiring in that you succeeded when so many said you wouldn’t, and I congratulate you on that. I too, learned similar lessons, and had similar experiences, & got a wonderful, high paying job that allows me to pursue my dreams, too. The difference is I did it all WITHOUT going to college. I’m glad you shared your experiences, but I hope that someone trying to decide whether or not to go to college will realize it’s a very personal decision, and although it turned out wonderfully for you, not going had the same results for me. Again, thank you for sharing, you should be proud of yourself for your accomplishments.