The older we get, the harder making friends can be, especially at work. We’re all so set in our ways, have our friendships solidified with history, and our routines firmly planted. But sometimes we meet someone who we just know we’d get along with smashingly, like Vicky in the cubicle across the way who seems so funny and cool, or Carlos the graphic design guy whose style we dig.
1. Start with
a sleepover lunch.
2. Ask your co-worker if
you can sob on her shoulder about your breakup he’d like to see La La Land or whatever big movie is out at the time.
3. Invite her or him to
cuddle with you during your thousandth watching of The Shining a cool/interesting but low-key event.
4. Plan a
nude spa day group outing and invite your co-worker along.
5. Go to
shots! shots! shots! happy hour.
Phrase it casually enough, and…