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	<title>Comments on: How To Be Your Own Perfect Lover</title>
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		<title>By: Alice Grist</title>
		<link>http://hellogiggles.com/how-to-be-your-own-perfect-lover/comment-page-1#comment-157305</link>
		<dc:creator>Alice Grist</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Feb 2013 14:42:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You sound like you have your head screwed on right! Good for you. And the right guy or future guys for you will never judge you as &#039;weird&#039;, not even in a good way. Because when you meet a guy decent enough to be worth you he won&#039;t find you in the least unusual, he will find you fascinating, intriguing, amazing, interesting, intelligent, unique! Remember that. Good luck to you with your schoolings and your future life!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You sound like you have your head screwed on right! Good for you. And the right guy or future guys for you will never judge you as &#8216;weird&#8217;, not even in a good way. Because when you meet a guy decent enough to be worth you he won&#8217;t find you in the least unusual, he will find you fascinating, intriguing, amazing, interesting, intelligent, unique! Remember that. Good luck to you with your schoolings and your future life!</p>
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		<title>By: Rachel Ariane</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rachel Ariane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Feb 2013 20:24:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I get what you&#039;re saying right now! I was friends with some assholes, but I then realized I shouldn&#039;t be dating one. I don&#039;t appreciate guys who constantly draw the line when they joke around about certain things I choose not to laugh at. And I don&#039;t even like how some guys I encounter wanted me to change my weird self for their own interest. Apparently, they can&#039;t handle weirdos who are weird in a good way just because they think ALL weirdos are horrible to society. 

Nowadays, I look for a guy who hands down treats me like I should be treated- with kindness, acceptance, honesty, and love of course. However, I plan on not dating right now because I&#039;m in my last semester of junior college while I&#039;ll be transferring to a university in Los Angeles (and no, it&#039;s not UCLA. It&#039;s California State Unversity Northridge) in the Fall semester. Thus, I hold school as a top priority and I plan not to date until I&#039;m done with school. It may be a Filipino thing to date before you marry, but I&#039;m not alone in doing this.

Oh, and I was watching an episode of the show Adventure Time where the character Marshall Lee (played by Donald Glover himself) was being an unintentionak jerk to Fionna. I then asked myself why would someone like Fionna fall for an &quot;asshole&quot; like Marshall Lee and later on, I decided to ask you the question in my earlier post after I read your article. Anyway, I&#039;d like to thank you for your response. Perhaps girls like Fionna are finding themselves after all by dating assholes or not.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I get what you&#8217;re saying right now! I was friends with some assholes, but I then realized I shouldn&#8217;t be dating one. I don&#8217;t appreciate guys who constantly draw the line when they joke around about certain things I choose not to laugh at. And I don&#8217;t even like how some guys I encounter wanted me to change my weird self for their own interest. Apparently, they can&#8217;t handle weirdos who are weird in a good way just because they think ALL weirdos are horrible to society. </p>
<p>Nowadays, I look for a guy who hands down treats me like I should be treated- with kindness, acceptance, honesty, and love of course. However, I plan on not dating right now because I&#8217;m in my last semester of junior college while I&#8217;ll be transferring to a university in Los Angeles (and no, it&#8217;s not UCLA. It&#8217;s California State Unversity Northridge) in the Fall semester. Thus, I hold school as a top priority and I plan not to date until I&#8217;m done with school. It may be a Filipino thing to date before you marry, but I&#8217;m not alone in doing this.</p>
<p>Oh, and I was watching an episode of the show Adventure Time where the character Marshall Lee (played by Donald Glover himself) was being an unintentionak jerk to Fionna. I then asked myself why would someone like Fionna fall for an &#8220;asshole&#8221; like Marshall Lee and later on, I decided to ask you the question in my earlier post after I read your article. Anyway, I&#8217;d like to thank you for your response. Perhaps girls like Fionna are finding themselves after all by dating assholes or not.</p>
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		<title>By: Alice Grist</title>
		<link>http://hellogiggles.com/how-to-be-your-own-perfect-lover/comment-page-1#comment-157010</link>
		<dc:creator>Alice Grist</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Feb 2013 13:10:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi Rachel, interesting Q! I think we all have our path and we gotta live it. Sometimes dating an asshole is part of that. I would hope that in doing this the gal in question eventually learns enough about herself to find a way out of the cycle and make herself happy... But of course that&#039;s not always the case. And everyone has to make their own mistakes, in their own time. So I guess I would always let people be. 
On a related note... my bestest friend just got married to her perfect guy. I don&#039;t use the term &#039;perfect guy&#039; lightly. She dated assholes on and off for years following a divorce. Somewhere along the way she dumped the assholes, found herself first and then just when she was happy on her own, she found the guy of her dreams and married him two days ago. It&#039;s cheesy, and it&#039;s cliche, but it&#039;s true. So we can be our own perfect lover... but it may take a few &#039;frogs&#039; to drive us to it first!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Rachel, interesting Q! I think we all have our path and we gotta live it. Sometimes dating an asshole is part of that. I would hope that in doing this the gal in question eventually learns enough about herself to find a way out of the cycle and make herself happy&#8230; But of course that&#8217;s not always the case. And everyone has to make their own mistakes, in their own time. So I guess I would always let people be.<br />
On a related note&#8230; my bestest friend just got married to her perfect guy. I don&#8217;t use the term &#8216;perfect guy&#8217; lightly. She dated assholes on and off for years following a divorce. Somewhere along the way she dumped the assholes, found herself first and then just when she was happy on her own, she found the guy of her dreams and married him two days ago. It&#8217;s cheesy, and it&#8217;s cliche, but it&#8217;s true. So we can be our own perfect lover&#8230; but it may take a few &#8216;frogs&#8217; to drive us to it first!</p>
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		<title>By: Rachel Ariane</title>
		<link>http://hellogiggles.com/how-to-be-your-own-perfect-lover/comment-page-1#comment-156869</link>
		<dc:creator>Rachel Ariane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Feb 2013 03:50:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Alice, it was wonderful of you to write this post. On another note, how do you feel about women dating &quot;assholes&quot; over &quot;nice guys&quot;? Would you judge them and tell them they should find someone who&#039;s right for them or would you back off and let them be?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alice, it was wonderful of you to write this post. On another note, how do you feel about women dating &#8220;assholes&#8221; over &#8220;nice guys&#8221;? Would you judge them and tell them they should find someone who&#8217;s right for them or would you back off and let them be?</p>
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		<title>By: Kasthen Velarde Rosero</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kasthen Velarde Rosero</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2013 01:32:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a very nice post. Sometimes we forget the meaning of love, we always look for perfection when none of us are. I think I&#039;ve really learned to love myself but as a Virgo that I am, I always wished my guy would be more this and that (perfect) but at the back of my head I know he&#039;s already perfect for me. Thanks for this! &lt;3]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a very nice post. Sometimes we forget the meaning of love, we always look for perfection when none of us are. I think I&#8217;ve really learned to love myself but as a Virgo that I am, I always wished my guy would be more this and that (perfect) but at the back of my head I know he&#8217;s already perfect for me. Thanks for this! &lt;3</p>
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		<title>By: Yamillet Rivas</title>
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		<dc:creator>Yamillet Rivas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Feb 2013 01:17:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I love this post! So very true. 2013 is the year to love myself... Whatever happens after will be a bonus! Learning to love myself.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love this post! So very true. 2013 is the year to love myself&#8230; Whatever happens after will be a bonus! Learning to love myself.</p>
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