I'll start off with the very basics, my names Kelly. I'm British
but my teeth are pretty normal. I'm pretty goofy (in a normal toothed way)...I am always the first to admit this. I am a female nerd in polka dots, (once again first to admit this). I'm quirky and not every bodies cup of tea (see told you I was British
Anyway I had a pretty douchey time in High School with female bullies, it got so bad in fact that I had to be dragged out of school...
Soooo a university degree later and 7 years on, I have a job in a pretty awesome office, it was me and like 7 guys at first which was AMAZING...then a new girl came and we were fine, not best friends but fine, then the office gets bigger and more women come in...once again fine. We all have a habit of ribbing one another for the fun of it, but one day I notice this girl isn't ribbing anymore "HEY YOU'RE BEING MEAN", so some tears and cupcakes later, I go to my bosses and say "this girls a bitch, and a bully" so they have a word with her, and low and behold the week after, she grabs me outside of work and demands to know why I told them...so I said "because you're MEAN, and I can't talk to you, you frickin' psychopath, cos you go all nuts and stuff". Anyway I am then told that nobody in the office likes me (BY HER OF COURSE, which makes me extremely upset), apparently I'm too quirky, too weird and too giddy and just down right annoying, she says everyone in the office hates me.....Now I walk into the office trying to weigh up who I can, and can't trust...basically I trust nobody there now...and I'm getting to the point where I have to....start being really mean to people (FYI don't know how to be mean, I googled it but it wasn't much help, my boyfriend tells me shouting * you isn't being mean, and he said I should just stick to googling kittens and leave the mean stuff to the pros)
SO my question is...to a bunch of ladies more similar to myself than the office wench...have any of you had this? and how did you deal with?