Hair

[summermoon]

I'm well into the second year with my boyfriend and the "newness" has worn off and so I'm less diligent about ... shaving. A few months into dating, I shaved my entire lady bit area but I have a lot of hair and it grows fast and that grew very tiresome. So, I let it grow back but I kept it mostly trimmed very short. This last month I haven't been able really to navigate down there and I have felt like crap so it grew. Even when it was "full" before, I always shaved the area around the vaginal opening so that was clean. But, I really couldn't do that lately and the boyfriend and I weren't having sex because I couldn't handle the pressure on my belly. I'm feeling better now and hopefully our sex life will get back on track (lol. I didn't have sex until I was 29. I want to have a lot of sex.) I mentioned to the boyfriend if he had a preference for it being shaved or not and he didn't say yes or no only that he wasn't used to it. He watches * and I'm okay with that, but we know how they look. (And his ex's were shaved BARE). His comment was that "most people from 15-50 shave it" mostly bare. Uh. I have no idea where he got this information. (He so silly.) I like to keep the actual area around my vagina clean shaven, but not the upper part. Is it going to make that much of a difference in our sex life?

[xyz]

The thing that will make the impact on your sex life is doing something that you're uncomfortable with. You've been with him for two years and he has seen and experienced what seems like a wide variety of different lady bits hairstyles you've had to offer and it hasn't seemed to have an impact, right? YOU DO YOU!

[mollydolly123]

something tells me that he'll be do distracted by the naked lady in the room to notice these little details that we spend so much time worrying about. Do whatever you feel best with!!!(Plus, from his point of view, you'll 'perform' better when you're comfortable.Y'know, like an athlete.)

[Ptree82]

I agree! If you feel more comfortable with the hair keep the hair. Whatever makes you feel sexier in your own skin will help you perform at your best.

[anne]

co-signing all the responses! pardon my french but in my experience, when a person wants to f--k, he/she will f--k despite the circumstances. haha!

[cutiepie66]

I am not sure what do with this scenario either. I have never shaved and I feel like I should for my boyfriend. But I don't know where to start or how to approach the situation. I am just scared...

[Bexsta]

Has he asked you to? or do you just feel like you should?
Like everyone else has said, what ever you feel the most comfortable with.
When you say scared, what do you mean? Personally i never like hearing the word 'scared' in the context that we are discussing. That may be just a me thing though.
PM me if its too private, or just to put my mind at ease

[cutiepie66]

I feel like I should.
Scared because I haven't shaven before and I wouldn't know how too for the best results I guess. Or how to shave actually.
Mainly I feel like I should because he has wanted to go down on me and I feel like I should shave just for that reason.

[Bexsta]

Oh now i get it......
If you wanna shave, go for it. Just make sure you can see what your doing lol
Maybe the first time you do it, do it at a time where its just going to be you for a while so you can get used to it and see if it is the right thing for you.

[amee821]

Um, no. Most girls 15-50 don't go mostly bare. That's laughable. I keep it how I'm comfortable. My fiance says he would like it if I shaved it bare, but he wouldn't complain if I went full "jungle" either. So yeah, I'm just going to keep doing it my way. You should too!